Once a person asked from the beloved prophet Hazrat
Muhammad (PBUH) about the right of the parents. Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) said
that:-
They
are your heaven and hell”.
It is important to be obedient to the parents after
the obedience of Allah and His beloved prophet. Some time children do not try
to realize that how much their parents have done for them. Every mother faces the pain of the pregnancy
and the pain of the child birth. She does not sleep in nights for her child.
When the child becomes ill the parents becomes worry. They nurse the child.
They spend their money for his health, for buying clothes for him. When the
child grows up they send him in school. They spend money for his education.
They spend their earning of whole life to make the child happy. They ignore the
mistakes of the child. They fulfill the every need and wish of the child.
At the end
when the child becomes able his duty starts. It’s the time to return. The very first thing which a child should do
is to behave with kindness and love to his parents. He should remember that
time when he was infant or a baby. He should remember that love and kindness.
The first wish which parents have is that their child should be obedient, kind,
polite and helpful. When parents become too weak and old that they cannot care
of their selves it’s the duty of the children to take care of the parents. They
should have loving and caring attitude toward the parents. They are the heaven
and the hell of the children. In Quran Allah has given command to show kindness
and love to the parents.
“Your
Lord has decreed that you shall worship none but Him, and (that you shall
treat) the parents with kindness. Whether one or both of them attain old age
with you, then, say not to them (even) an ‘Oof,’ nor repel them, rather, speak
to them noble words”
The right of your mother
The
right of your mother can be understood by one Ahadith:-
“Once
a companion asked the Prophet PBUH as to
whom he should show more kindness. The Prophet PBUH
replied: "Your mother." He asked who comes next and the
Prophet PBUH again replied: "Your
mother." He asked the Prophet PBUH yet
again who comes next. The Prophet PBUH replied:
“Your mother." When the companion asked for the fourth time, only then did
the Prophet PBUH reply: "Your
father."
If someone wants to get success in
this life and in other life then he should be obedient of his parents.
There are certain points which should keep him mind.
·
You should speak
politely and humble to your parents
·
You should obey
your parents as long as no insubordination to Allah is included
·
You should never
grimace at them, nor provide for them a furious look.
·
You should show
honor to them and should their notoriety and their property. Never take
anything from them without consent.
·
You should do
those objects which please them and should help them without asking.
·
You should ask
for the advice in any matter.
·
You should give
response quickly to them when they ask anything with smile and in a polite
manner.
·
You should never
put a blame on them if they done any error.
·
You should not
speak with then in loud voice.
·
You should not
give priority to your wife or children over them.
We should recognize the status of
the parents which is very higher. We should know our duties toward our parents.
In Quran it is said that:-
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